Have you ever had a conflict within the community rise to the point of making you blood boil and you were so enraged you could not see? Thankfully it doesn't happen often, or I hope it doesn't. Recently I had this experience in a community I am part of, and the conflict was quite irrational.
I'd love to hear from you what your strategies to deal with conflict are. I personally find my best way to deal is to open notepad and write all things I want. Then I take a breath, go for a glass of water or a walk. Finally, I will relook at what I wrote to compose things a bit more "diplomatically".